What better title for a post about my boyfriend than his name?
A sport I love brought me the man I love. Geesh, why didnt that happen when I was in judo (all those AUGIE days!)
Romnick.. When I first met him i thought:
(1) he was gay… must’ve been because i KNOW he plucks his eyebrows, shaves his legs, or maybe because he was goofing around Jay (one of our gym instructors) or must’ve been because of the headband he wore everytime he’s training.
this picture is all i have with him wearing a headband. NOTE the headband! NOT the ABS! haha!

(2) if he was gay, he was a gay who could really kick ASS. It didnt dawn on me he was part of the Philippine Team til I saw him train. His kicks could seriously hurt someone.
(3) he was wayyy too friendly to women so he couldn’t be gay. Let’s just say 90% of his facebook and friendster population consist of women. HAHAHA!
(4) he was rude enough to tell me he thought I was 29 years old. (seriously made me want to get BOTOX right then and there) Which he makes worse by calling me “29″ everytime he saw me .. GRRR..
Here’s our first picture together. He said “ma’am Kim, picture tayo” hahaha!

(5) He’s cute, he looked nice– okay he looked HOT! — then again, i’ve seen his “jock type” before so I was trying so hard not to like him.
I wont bore you with the mushy details. But to make it short, I didnt imagine someone like him was the epitome of what Filipinos call “probinsyanong torpe”.
took him a while to tell me he liked me. Took him a while to ask me to be his girlfriend– if it was some “game plan” of his, I dont know..But what’s important is I found it adorable and hey, he won me over. haha!
Oh and by the way, he shaved his head after I told him I thought he was gay when I first saw him.
my opinion, he looks better with this ‘do.


He’s the complete opposite of what most people think of him. Knowing him proved me wrong in some assumptions I made about him.
(1) he’s not gay. oh BELIEVE me he’s not. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
(2) he’s the most down-to earth boyfriend I’ve ever had. He’s simple when he expresses himself. no strings and bullshit attached, he’ll tell you what he knows and feels and you know it’s from his heart. Oh-kay… mushy moment, so sue me. HAHA!
(3) He called his family just to introduce me to everyone. Uncle, cousins, mom, dad, sister, lolo, etc. It impressed me how close he is to his family and how well he was brought up by his parents. Will be going home with him this year to meet everyone. His sister and mom are like my BFFs now.
(4) What people describe to be his pompous, arrogant self is him sharing what he knows about muay thai and martial arts– he has more experience in them than people twice his age do. He knows what he’s doing and haters just cant take it.


So bottomline, I’m happy.
And this goth is definitely in love.